As a young man, Joseph lived the same transient life that his parents had before homesteading at Lonesome Butte in southern Saskatchewan. Mostly he lived in towns along the Northern Pacific Railway just south of the Canadian border, working on the railway as a mail sorter. Joseph was almost eleven years Pluma’s senior, but he was tall, dark, and handsome and he gave her the prospect of having her own home after a childhood of being shuffled from one relative to the next. With a good and steady job, he would be able to provide for her and any children they would have.
Joseph Arthur Haverfield and Pluma Mae Anderson were married April 12, 1909, in Dunseith, and their first child, a daughter, Leah Berdella, was born there on February 1, 1910. Their love for Berdella is very evident in the studio photo taken when she was about six months old: they were devastated when their beautiful dark-haired, dark-eyed girl died three months later of whooping cough. Leah Berdella was buried near her grandmother, Lura Lyman, in the Riverside Cemetery east of Dunseith.